Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18
A soul tie can serve many functions, but in it’s simplest form, it ties two souls together in the spiritual realm.
Sexual sin defiles our physical bodies, but also our SOUL and SPIRIT. God’s will is to sanctify us, meaning set us apart for holy use: make us pure. And whenever we disobey God’s guidance, we open ourselves us to demonic powers. For the topic today (sexual immorality), when we have sex outside of marriage or commit adultery, we breaks us out of agreement. Unrepentant sexual sin defiles the heart, making it impossible to experience the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives. If we wish to be pure in heart, we cannot engage in sexual sin. Sex outside of marriage breaks our unity with God and adultery breaks our unity with our spouse and also with God.
Sex enhances emotional bonds, even when it’s a one nigh stand or “no strings attached”. Sex is like gluing two card boards together. When we attempt to rip it apart, some parts come off from one- and are glued to the other and vice versa. This is what happens when we have sex with others- we interchange things, except we do not know exactly what we lose of what we gain. A part of your sex partner (the good, bad, and ugly) stays with you for the rest of your life- and a piece of you stays with him/her forever as well. Because of our disobedience to God’s order for sex, we face consequences today of disease, abortion, rape, perversion, child molestation, addiction, adultery, child abandonment, pornography, poverty, and sexual exploitation.
God created sexuality, so He also set the boundaries for it. He joined them together in marriage and told them to fill the earth (with children, through sex). He said that because of this union, the man should leave the parents and join with his wife, therefore “becoming one flesh”. Then God made it very clear that he is against adultery (cheating), lust (looking with desire), Fornication (sexual intercourse before marriage), homosexuality, effeminate (dressing like the opposite sex), and pornography. God created love, sex and music but Satan perverts it. Love, he changes to lust, sex to unbridled passion, and music which was created for worship, to worship of his thoughts and ideas.
Your mood shifts based on their presence or absence; they are constantly on your mind; You think about them sexually even after you are married to someone else; You take on the negative traits of the person that your soul is tied to and carry their offenses whether or not you actually agree with them; You have simultaneous experiences and/or “moods” as the person your soul is tied to. This can even include sickness, accidents, addictions etc.; You have difficulty making decisions without that person’s input or approval; You always consider the person’s reaction or thoughts when you are making decisions; You stalk them on social media; You cannot stop seeing them or having sex with them; You have left a relationship (maybe long ago), but you think about the other person obsessively (you can’t get them out of your mind); Whenever you do anything – make a decision, have a conversation with someone etc., you “feel” like this person is with you or watching you; You are willing to do ANYTHING to make the relationship work; You are in a physically, and/or emotionally, and/or spiritually abusive relationship, but you “feel” so attached to them that you refuse to cut off the connection and set boundaries with them; You stay with them even if the relationship is unhealthy; You stay with them despite family and friend’s protest; You defend your right to stay in a relationship with the person that your soul is tied to, even though it is negatively effecting or even destroying the important relationships in your life (husband, wife, kids, leaders, etc.)
I also want to remind you all that soul ties are bonds formed in both good and bad relationships: friendships, parents, siblings, etc. It is also obvious that sex is not the only way to build a soul tie: it can be built through kissing, truces, declarations, and other type of agreements. I advise you all to evaluate your life, and turn away from sin- if you already have, forgive yourself and forgive others (so that the enemy would have no grounds to enter your life) and lastly renounce (release by announcing) those people you could have a soul tie with.
Demonic powers cause TORMENT: Be Free.
Father God, thank you for bringing this subject to our attention again. I believe you know all things including the condition of our souls. I present to you those who will be reading this devotional, may you deal with them in a manner they would be able to see the spiritual realm. Take the blinds off of their eyes, and cause them to seek deliverance. If any spoken commitments, vows or declarations have been made, like “I will love you forever”, I plead the blood of Jesus against it. Any gifts received, I pray you reveal so we can all get rid of attachments keeping us bound in the spiritual realm. I ask you to break all ungodly soul ties between myself and all men and women of my past. In Jesus name, Amen.